6 top tips to find your freelance community
While there are definite advantages to working for yourself – freedom and flexibility for starters – there are disadvantages, too. Working alone means it’s easy to feel lonely and isolated and that, in turn, can leave you feeling no one understands the challenges you’re facing day-to-day.
But, as I say in Survival Skills for Freelancers, going solo doesn’t mean going it alone – and finding a community of like-minded individuals to work, collaborate and share with is a real gamechanger.
Here are my top tips to help you find your freelance community.
- Consider coworking
If staring at the same four walls each day gives you Groundhog Day vibes, consider renting a coworking space two or three times a week. While you don’t need to be a freelancer to use a coworking space – shared work zones attract flexible workers of all kinds – many freelancers find shared working gives them the lifeline they need to overcome the isolation that can come with the job title.
Some coworking spaces operate on a pay-as-you-go basis where you can drop in and use the facilities when you need to. Others charge a fixed weekly or monthly fee. Shop around to see what’s best for you.
- Get social online
Social media offers countless networks of enthusiastic, inspiring creatives just like you – and you don’t even need to move from your desk to join them! Freelance communities on platforms such as Twitter, Facebook and Slack are packed with information, advice, support, opportunities for collaboration… and likeminded people.
Start with thriving Facebook groups such as Freelance Heroes or Being Freelance, or look out for industry-specific communities such as Logo Geek (for graphic designers) or Freelance PRs.
- Give more than you take
As with most things in life, you get out of online freelance communities what you put in – so dig in, introduce yourself, browse members’ posts and engage with discussions. Resist the temptation to self-promote. Instead, engage with others, be encouraging, helpful and informed, and give more than you take. Once you’ve established yourself as an active member and become known as friendly, reliable and someone who knows their stuff, you’re more likely to attract likeminded people, which may even pay off in referrals and business.
- Do your research
Want to expand your network or social circle but don’t know where to start? Following hashtags on Twitter and Instagram can help you spot people with similar interests and goals. Give them a follow and reach out with a comment or DM. Many real-life friendships develop from online connections. (This happens over time, not overnight, so be prepared to invest time and effort.)
- Go local
Joining a local business network is a great way to meet likeminded individuals and has the added benefit of encouraging you to leave your desk occasionally! In person networking doesn’t need to be intimidating – remember, everyone was new once. Be yourself, show a genuine interest in others, and focus on making new connections rather than sales. It might take a while to find a group that feels like home, so be prepared to try a range of networking groups – from formal breakfast gatherings to casual chats over coffee – until you find the right freelance community.
- Build your support network
Making money isn’t everything. Sure, we all need to pay the bills, but you deserve some me-time, too! Keeping work and home life separate is super important when you’re freelance. Set firm boundaries – especially around your working hours – and refuse to let your home life come second.
A good support network of non-business friends is essential to your mental wellbeing, so never feel guilty about switching off the laptop, joining a yoga class, or meeting a friend for coffee. Switching off doesn’t just help you to recharge – it boosts focus, creativity and productivity. Your brain will thank you for it, and so will your bank balance.
Freelancing and feeling lonely? Combat isolation with these 6 top tips
Freelancer loneliness is no joke – and it’s widespread. In a survey of 1,500 freelancers*, 64 per cent said they regularly felt lonely, while a shocking 55 per cent said the social isolation of working alone had left them feeling depressed.
Sure, no one misses the office politics and the tedious commute, but we’re social creatures and it’s easy to miss the buzz and connection of working in an office – no matter how independent, self-reliant or introverted you are.
Spending weeks on end staring at the same four walls with only the cat for company is a sure-fire recipe for misery and frustration (believe me, I’ve been there!).
Prioritising your mental health is key to a happy, healthy working life – and combatting loneliness is a great place to start. As I say in Survival Skills for Freelancers, going solo doesn’t mean going it alone.
Here are six tried and tested tips to help you avoid isolation and stay connected.
1. Vary your surroundings
Getting out of the house might sound counterintuitive. After all, the point of working from home is, well… to work from home, right?
Yes and no. Spending too long in your own company isn’t just draining – it contributes to feelings of isolation and reduces productivity.
Many freelancers find shared working gives them the lifeline they need to overcome the loneliness that comes with the job title – and those who use coworking spaces get a lot more from doing so than desk space.
When I asked the freelance community what they enjoy about coworking, responses included the buzz, camaraderie and chat, opportunities for collaboration, improved productivity, mutual support, the chance to network, less loneliness, a vital boundary between work and home – and, of course, great coffee!
But it’s not essential to join an organised coworking space to get a sense of community. I enjoy the buzz and connection that comes from working at my gym, but you may prefer to mix it up by trying different coffee shops, your local library, or even a park when the weather is good.
Even varying your surroundings once a week helps to combat that Groundhog Day feeling.
2. Schedule in rest and social time
When you’re smashing through a busy workload, it’s easy to forget to take care of yourself – but you can’t keep running on empty!
Taking on too much and trying to do it all with too few breaks is the quickest route to freelancer burnout. Building regular breaks and exercise into your daily routine helps to release endorphins – those powerful, feel-good chemicals that help to ease stress, anxiety, and depression.
Here are just a few ways to build exercise into your day:
- Go for a run, swim or bike ride
- Take the dog for a long walk in muddy wellies
- Dance around your kitchen while you wait for the kettle to boil
- Challenge a friend to a game of tennis.
- Lift some weights at the gym
- Take a yoga, Zumba or spin class.
Even if you don’t feel like it – in fact, especially then – forcing yourself to disengage from ‘office mode’ can recharge your batteries and help you return to your desk with renewed focus and energy.
3. Find your tribe online
When I started out as a freelancer, there was no social media – in fact, there was barely any internet! These days, there are ready-made online networks of amazing, talented and creative people just like you, all around the world.
Finding likeminded people to cowork, collaborate and share with can be a real gamechanger when you’re self-employed – and groups such as Freelance Heroes, Being Freelance or the Marketing Meetup community are a great place to start.
Group members share their experiences and post questions, challenges and suggestions, and the community responds with help, support and advice. As with most things in life, you get out of online communities what you put in – so dig in, introduce yourself, browse their posts, give generously, and don’t self-promote unless you’re invited to!
4. Join local business networks
Networking can be a lifeline for the home-based freelancer – as well as a great source of new clients and colleagues – and it’s not as scary as you may think.
I used to think networking wasn’t for me. I equated the word with standing in a room full of serious, suit-wearing strangers, all set on selling their services. Then I discovered that not all networking is the same, and that the secret to enjoying it is to find the groups and events that fit your business and personality – so be prepared to experiment with different groups and formats.
Sure, it can take a while to find the right crowd but you’ll know it when you find it. Try asking the freelance communities online for recommendations in your local area, or check out Facebook Events, Eventbrite or meetup.com for inspiration.
5. Limit your use of social media
This one is less about connecting and more about protecting!
Social media has a habit of amplifying our feelings. If you’re feeling confident, resilient and in control – great. But when you’re feeling low, disconnected or lonely the last thing you need is the highlights of everyone else’s seemingly perfect lives.
Remember that social media is edited highlights – and don’t be afraid to take a social detox when comparisonitis starts to get the better of you. Switch off, pick up the phone or arrange to meet a friend for a natter. I guarantee it’ll make you feel ten times better.
As the saying goes, “Don’t compare your insides with other people’s outsides”. Stay in your own lane, and don’t worry about what other people are – or appear to be – doing.
6. Help someone else
Finally, one of the best ways to lift yourself out of a rut and to shift your focus outwards is to help someone else. Cultivate an attitude of collaboration, rather than seeing those who do the same job as you as your competitors.
Offer to help out at local business events, to speak at meetings or conferences, or to guest on your favourite podcast. It may take you outside your comfort zone but it’ll give you a renewed focus and a confidence boost into the bargain.
What could you do differently today?
*Freelancer Loneliness Survey, undertaken by The Leadership Factor (TLF), commissioned by Viking, 2019.
Driven to distraction? 7 top tips to stop procrastination when working from home
“I never put off till tomorrow what I can possibly do the day after” – Oscar Wilde
Working from home sounds great, doesn’t it? No office politics to worry about or difficult boss to please. Instead, you get to do things your way – working when you want, where you want and how you want, and saving on commuting and travel into the bargain.
What’s not to love?!
But while there are definite advantages of remote working, there are distinct downsides, too.
Working from home comes with a lot of distractions – Netflix, housework, emails, endless notifications and the temptations of social media… not to mention your family or flatmate!
It’s easy to get to 5pm without having achieved a thing and be left wondering where the day went!
Whether you’re an experienced freelancer or new to working from home, here are 7 top tips to stop procrastination sapping your time and to give productivity the upper hand.
It might be tempting to roll out of bed whenever you feel like it, but if you want to make home working work for you, setting a regular routine is key to staying focused – as well as a great way to set a boundary between work and home life. What’s more, setting your own schedule makes it much easier to focus on the task in hand.
The hours you choose matter less than the regularity – ultimately, your clients don’t care what hours you work, as long as you get the job done on time. Design your routine around your most productive times, whether that means starting and finishing late, or getting up at silly o’clock and being done by lunchtime. Schedule breaks and time for exercise and end your day at a set time.
If you’re struggling to complete anything, you might be suffering from overwhelm. Start the day with a list of everything you need to get done in order of priority, and tick tasks off as you go. If it helps, break each task down into small, manageable chunks. Taking simple steps that are easy to do tricks your brain into focusing on what you can do, rather than what you can’t. As the saying goes, the only way to eat an elephant is in small chunks.
At the end of the day, take a moment to reflect on what you’ve achieved.
We’re all different. I know some freelancers who can’t work without the buzz of daytime television and others who need absolute silence to focus. Whichever camp you fall into, schedule time where distractions and interruptions are minimised, and you can focus on the task at hand.
Step away from the TV remote, stay off social media, disable pop-up notifications and resist the temptation to check your email every five minutes. Consider setting an auto responder that lets your clients know you only check your emails a couple of times a day – then stick to it!
Today’s achievement culture implies that we should all be experts at juggling – and I’m not talking about circus skills! Yet far from being a sign of efficiency, too much multitasking actually lowers your productivity and can lead to overwhelm.
Limit your use of social media, avoid multi-screening, and focus on one task until it’s complete, rather than keeping a dozen projects on the go at once. And remember, it’s okay to say ‘no’ to work if you really don’t have the time. Clients will respect you more if you do a consistently good job than if you try to take on too many things and end up lowering your standards.
Manage your time
It’s a lot easier to focus when you feel in control of your time. One tried and tested productivity hack that works for me is the Pomodoro Technique. Start by setting a timer for 25 minutes and focus completely and utterly on the task at hand. When the time is up, take a five-minute break. Step away from your desk, make yourself a drink or do a few simple stretches – whatever helps you relax. You’ll come back to the next part of the task refreshed and ready to refocus.
Minimise cabin fever
Most of us spend way too much time being inactive. It’s easy to spend your day hunched over your laptop when you’re working from home but taking regular breaks can help you stay focused and productive.
Use your lunchbreak to get out on your bike or to go for a walk around the block. Take your laptop to a coffee shop for a change of scene (and a decent flat white). And swap some of those endless Zoom calls for walk and talks. Chances are your client will be equally delighted to leave their desk for a bit, and the fresh air and exercise will give you a mental health boost.
Curb your perfectionism
We all experience imposter syndrome from time to time. Even Tom Hanks, Serena Williams and Maya Angelou have admitted to it! It’s that nagging inner voice that tells us we’ll never be good enough. Don’t listen to it!
Instead of striving for perfection, remember what Sheryl Sandberg said: “Done is better than perfect”. Remember – we fail, we learn, we grow – and the only real failure is failing to try. So, give yourself permission to make mistakes and go for it! You’ve got this!
6 super-simple work from home tips from a veteran homeworker
As a freelance copywriter, I’ve worked from home for over 20 years.
I’ve been there, done that, and got the scars to prove it. And, as a single parent for 12 of those years, I’ve learned to juggle kids, home and work without totally losing control.
Most of the time, at least.
A whole new world…
The world has changed due to COVID-19. Tens of thousands of employees who are used to the accountability, buzz and connection that come with working in an office now find themselves working from home for the foreseeable future.
Where do you even start?!
If you’ve never worked from home before, you may feel out of your depth.
How do you juggle work and home life? What about boundaries? How do you focus? What about dealing with isolation?
The following super simple work from home tips for newbie homeworkers are adapted from my #1 Amazon bestselling book, Survival Skills for Freelancers. I hope you find them helpful.
6 simple work from home tips
1. Claim your space
Not everyone is lucky enough to have a spare room they can use as a home office. Wherever you decide to work from, set some rules around work-free zones for the sake of your family and relationships.
A supportive, adjustable chair, good natural light, a clutter-free table or desk and a door you can close at the end of the day are a bonus.
2. Start your day with purpose
Get up at your usual time. Shower and get dressed, even if you don’t feel like it. Eat a decent breakfast away from your laptop.
Spend the equivalent of your commuting time reading, catching up on inspiring podcasts or listening to music that lifts your mood.
(My 17-year-old son is continuing to get up at 6.30am, and has decided to spend the time he’d have been on the school bus exercising and doing weights in our garage.)
3. Stay connected
If we can’t meet in real life, let’s do it online.
Think about switching your calls to Zoom, Skype or FaceTime. Sure, not everyone is comfortable using video, but if I can get my 73-year-old mum doing it, there’s really no excuse! Let’s make video calls the norm.
Join Facebook groups of likeminded people for support and advice. There are literally hundreds of groups out there, based on geographical location, job type or interest.
Experiment to find one or two groups that feel right. Choose those that focus on the positive, rather than the negative and cynical, which can drag you down.
If you can, set up an accountability group of colleagues or peers for support and to help you stay on track. Use the group chat facility on WhatsApp or Facebook Messenger to keep in touch, and check in once a week/fortnight/month via video call.
Don’t be afraid to admit if you’re finding things hard. To borrow a line from High School Musical, we’re all in this together – and help is out there!
4. Keep on moving
Too much sitting is bad for us – particularly if you’re hunched over a laptop, so build regular stretching, standing and movement into your day.
If you have an activity tracker or smartwatch, set it to give you regular reminders to move.
(My Apple Watch is great for this. It even gives me regular reminders to breathe deeply. Sounds obvious but it really does help me calm down when I’m stressed out.)
If you really can’t make that call via video, take your phone calls standing up. Pace circuits of your home, if you’re lucky enough to have that much space. I walked over 4.5k steps one day last week while on the phone or waiting for the kettle to boil.
Build time into your day for a walk around the block. Fresh air and exercise are good for productivity and wellbeing, and the thinking time away from your desk (or dining room table) can help with problem solving and clearing mental blocks.
5. Avoid distractions
Turn off the TV, switch off pop-up notifications and use an app to stop you checking social media and email every five minutes (you know you do it).
Set an automated message to reply to your emails saying you’ll check them just a couple of times a day. The world won’t end while you’re focusing on the task in hand, whatever that may be.
Do household chores in short bursts, if at all. For example, unload the dishwasher or stick on a wash while you wait for the kettle to boil.
Alternatively, avoid them altogether during working hours, and commit to tackling them once you finish work for the day. Get help from your partner or the rest of the family. Everyone needs to muck in right now, more than ever before.
6. Introduce routine
It’s easy for work and home life to blur if you don’t have clear boundaries. Start and end your day at a set time just as you would if you were going into the office.
Schedule time for lunch, and an outdoor break for fresh air and exercise. Consider using the Pomodoro time management technique, which splits your day into 25-minute blocks of focused activity with five-minute breaks after each burst.
I don’t claim these work from home tips will teach you everything you need to know, but use them as a starting point and I hope you’ll find life as a newbie homeworker a lot less daunting.